On My Mind Monday my amazing friends…

Hi on my mind this Monday are my amazing friends.  When you go thru a really bad time in your life you see who your friends are.  There are those friends who will go to your parities and those are some good friends.  But when your are down and your friends show up then you see what friendship means.  To you and to them.  In the time since I lost my love, I have been blessed to see I have some amazing friends.  I don’t know how I got so lucky in this life.  I can’t thank them enough for there amazing actions of friendship to me.  I want to share a few with you…

Amazing friends

One of my amazing friends who lives out of state, thanks to having gotten a call from his cousin who saw it on FB was on my door step the next day.  Even thought I admittedly told him the previous day when he got me on the phone you don’t need to come.  He visited with me for two days before the wake and I will never be able to repay that kindness.

One of my amazing friends who lives not to far away but for whatever reasons we never made the time to get together.  Also just showed up at my door.  Which of course made me a little paranoid I was all like how did you know where I live? lol {I have to laugh/smile when I can} She had reached out to my sister for the address.  Her visit really warmed my heart.  We sat and just talked for several hours.  

One of my amazing friends who lives a little over 2 hours away.  Cried with me when she couldn’t get here for the wake due to snow storm.  But a week later when I called having a particularly bad day was at my house to just sit with me within an hour and half. Something I will never be able to repay her.  On my moving day her and her husband took the trip down here and showed up.  He was an amazing help after having only met me a couple of times.  I will never be able to thank him enough.  I’m so happy my girlfriend has such an amazing husband.  God has blessed her.  I think she pays it forward everyday as they are amazing foster parents to children in need.

One of my amazing friends reached out to me shortly after and asked me to meet him in church.  When something like this suddenly happens to you it can rock your faith.  I will admit that mine was.  I met him at mass and he held my hand as I cried my way threw mass.  Afterwords we sat for a couple of hours and just talked.  His unwavering faith after having lost both his parents is of great comfort to me.

Another of my amazing friends when I mentioned I would need an apartment to move into.  She spoke to her landlord and found me the apartment I’m now in.  She lives on the 3rd floor of this building and checks on me routinely to make sure I’m OK.  And or keep me company or have dinner together.  A kindness I can’t thank her enough for.

Another of my amazing friends who I have mentioned on the blog here before Chino.  Showed up this weekend, after helping heck managing my move to set up my things on my walls.  He is a super handy guy and I’m so lucky to have him as a friend.  This week on the blog you will get to see my apartment living room coming together and it’s due to my amazing friends.


I have more than a few more amazing friends.  I thank GOD daily for having these people in my life.  Thank you to everybody here mentioned and not mentioned here, for reaching out to me in any way.  I appreciate it more than you will ever know.  I am a lucky woman to have you all in my life.

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18 Responses

  1. Carolann says:

    You are super blessed to have such amazing friends Anj! I’m so happy for you! They see you through the hard times and are a pillar of support. What a lovely post and a great tribute to those you love!

  2. Wendy says:

    I’m so glad you are surrounded by loving people. Especially when you need it most!

  3. Friendship is definitely something to be treasured. I’m so glad you had such amazing support through all of it. You know I love ya!

  4. Robin Rue (@massholemommy) says:

    You are so lucky to be surrounded by such amazing friends. I think we all need close friends like that in our lives.

  5. Jeannette says:

    It sounds like you have some really amazing friends! It’s so nice to know that you have someone who will be there for you no matter what!

  6. Sounds like you have some great friends and family! I do too and thank God each day for them in my life!

  7. Crystal says:

    I was blessed with an amazing group of friends & support group also. It’s important to tell the people in your life how much they are appreciated.

  8. Alicia says:

    It is really nice when you have a set of true friends that are always there for you and that you can count on and vise versa. I have a few close friends. I am so glad you have such great friends in your life!

  9. Sue says:

    I am so happy you had and have the support during this hard time of losing Tommy. I look at your now and know life is still difficult, but I see a new wonderfulness in you that I am thinking now is the reflection of these same amazing friends who have lifted you up and help you to carry your burden. God Bless you and your friends.

  10. jasmine says:

    You’re lucky to have amazing friends!

  11. Ellen ThatChicMom says:

    I am so sorry for your loss but so glad you have such wonderful friends. it sounds like you are truly blessed by wonderful people in your life.

  12. Liz Mays says:

    It’s so great that you have friends you can go to! This is a very sweet post!

  13. Sara P. (@SensiblySara) says:

    I think everyone deserves to have amazing friends! I have a great group of gals I am lucky enough to call friends, too.

  14. Deb@SimplePlate says:

    Having great friends is essential to happiness. They bring such joy and comfort to me every day! I’m glad you have such amazing friends and that you can appreciate them like you do.

  15. Shell Feis says:

    I’m so glad you have so many amazing friends in your life. It makes all the difference in the world.

  16. Krissy says:

    What a blessing to have so many amazing friends – it’s really true, you find out who your REAL friends are when times get tough. I’m so glad you have soo many people to lean on!

  17. Heather says:

    This post made me happy! Sounds like you have a great group around you Anj! You need that xo

  18. Tianna says:

    wow some amazing friends you had! it’s so wonderful when things like this happen to show us who is truly there for us…